Introducing a new sibling can be a significant change for an older child, especially if this is their first sibling, as they will need to adjust from being an only child. It is natural for them to experience a range of emotions during this transition. To help ease the adjustment and foster a strong bond between your children, here are some fun and engaging activities to try.
Special Sibling Time
Set aside dedicated time for your older child to assist with simple baby-related tasks, such as choosing the baby’s outfit, fetching nappies, or helping during nappy changes. Involving them in these small but meaningful ways can foster a sense of responsibility and inclusion, helping them feel more connected to the new arrival.
Sibling Storytime
Creating a regular time during the day or on weekends, where you read books together with both your older child and the baby is an excellent bonding activity. Many children’s books specifically address the emotions surrounding a new sibling, which can be particularly helpful in guiding your child to understand and process their feelings. Books like these are available for a variety of reading ages, so you can choose the most suitable ones for your family. You can find some examples here.
Creating Art for your Baby
Encourage your older child to create something special for the baby, such as drawing a picture or making a craft to hang in the nursery. This creative activity gives them a fun project to focus on and if you’re child is around toddler age, it acts as a great sensory play activity too. It your older child to express excitement about their new sibling in a tangible way and make them feel proud of their accomplishment and included.
Sibling Bonding Games
Engage in gentle games where your older child can “entertain” the baby, such as by showing them their favourite toys, holding up artwork, or making silly faces or noises to make the baby laugh. These simple interactions encourage a loving connection.
Big Brother/Sister Role
Make your older child feel important by emphasising their special role as a big sibling. You could present them with a “big sibling” badge, or another small token to highlight their new status. This can boost their confidence and remind them of their unique and valued place within the family, helping to alleviate any feelings of jealousy or uncertainty.
By involving your older child in these activities and fostering their new role as a caring sibling, you can help them feel secure, important, and excited about welcoming the new family addition. It’s all about creating opportunities for connection and ensuring they know their place in the family is still cherished.
